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🌍 The 5 Fanum Love Rules for Kids (Ages 8–10)

🪨 EARTH = BODY & HOME

Fanum Rule:

If love makes you feel unsafe in your body or your house,
it's not real love.

How kids feel taxed:

• Someone hurts you and says “it’s because I love you.”

• You're made to share things you don’t want to share.

• You don’t feel safe where you live.

Fanum says:

Love should make your body feel safe, not scared.
A real friend says, “Can I?” before touching or taking.

Draw it: A tree with strong roots, hugging your feet.

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🌊 WATER = FEELINGS

Fanum Rule:

If love says you can’t cry or that your feelings are too much,
it’s not real love.

How kids feel taxed:

• Someone says “stop crying” when you’re sad.

• You’re told to smile even when something hurts.

• You're scared to tell the truth about how you feel.

Fanum says:

Love should let your feelings flow, like a river.
You can feel anything. You don’t have to hide it.

Draw it: A wave with a heart floating in it.

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🔥 FIRE = CHOICE

Fanum Rule:

If someone tells you who to be or what to do “because they love you,”
they’re taxing your fire.

How kids feel taxed:

• Adults say “you HAVE to” instead of asking.

• Friends push you to play a game you don’t like.

• Someone says, “If you loved me, you would...”

Fanum says:

Love means you still get to choose.
Your “No” is holy. Your “Yes” is yours, not theirs.

Draw it: A candle you hold in your own hands.

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🌬️ AIR = VOICE

Fanum Rule:

If love tells you to be quiet when you need to speak,
it's not real love.

How kids feel taxed:

• Someone says, “Don’t talk about that.”

• You feel like no one listens to you.

• You get in trouble for asking questions.

Fanum says:

Your voice matters.
Love lets you speak your truth and still be loved.

Draw it: A cloud with sparkles coming out of it—your words.

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🐉 ETHER = SPIRIT (WHO YOU ARE INSIDE)

Fanum Rule:

If love tries to change your true self, or says you owe someone because of the past,
it's taxing your soul.

How kids feel taxed:

• “You’re weird, be normal.”

• “You should act more like your brother.”

• “You owe me because I raised you.”

Fanum says:

You are already enough.
You don’t owe anyone your sparkle.
Real love remembers who you are.

Draw it: A dragon curled around a glowing star.

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🌟 THE FANUM VOW FOR KIDS

💗 I am love. I am safe. I can feel. I can say no. I can speak. I can be me. 💗
That’s Fanum. That’s real love.
And no one—not even a grown-up—gets to take that away.